It actually is an either-or situation, because most people have limited patience for prolonged and repeated negativity. In real life, if one keeps complaining about everything, they would eventually be ignored. This is why we should focus on those who really seek to harm us.
Written by TaraElla
Author & musician. Moral Libertarian. Mission is to build a politics based on shared values & defend the heart and soul of liberalism. https://www.taraella.com